Making friends and keeping friends can be difficult for children with ADHD. Positive peer relationships are critical to your child's development and self esteem. You may notice that your child misses social cues, gets quickly bored with the games the other children are playing, or simply acts too impulsively when in social situations.
There are some steps you can take to help your child develop these essential social skills.
Discuss People's Feelings: Look at pictures of different people in a magazine. Ask your child how she thinks that person is feeling and how she came to that conclusion. You may also prompt her to tell you what she thinks might have happened before the picture was taken that caused the emotion.
Role Play Social Situations: Act out different scenarios with your child. "Let's pretend you are meeting me for the first time." Or "Let's pretend you see a group of children playing and you want to join in." Role playing will allow you to model appropriate social behavior.
Positive Feedback: When you see your child display good social behavior be certain to provide immediate positive feedback. "I liked how you helped John up when he fell. That was so kind." Or "Thank you for holding the door open for me. That is so polite."
Play Attention: Play Attention can help your child develop the skills she needs to make friends and keep friends. We have a fantastic add on game called Social Skills. It specifically teaches your child how to develop the ability to understand social cues. Most importantly, like all of our games within Play Attention, she can only play the game if she is in her maximum attentive state. If she loses her attention, the game will stop and wait for her to focus. This will ensure your daughter will get maximum benefit from the teaching method. See our Social Skills Game.